Kindness is more than being nice. It's great to do nice things for people, and that's certainly part of being kind. But true kindness goes deeper. It tests our character because it isn't always easy. Most everyone is kind to others when they feel like it, or when other people are nice to them.
But here are 7 questions that take it deeper. These might be good to discuss with your students or even with your colleagues. I know I need to consistently reflect on these to keep growing and developing my own kindness qualities.
True kindness doesn't envy the success of others. It's being happy for others and celebrating with them and for them.
2. How do you treat people who can do nothing for you in return?
Some people are kind to gain status or favor or tangible rewards. But true kindness shows up strongest with selfless motives, expecting nothing in return.
3. How do you treat others in times of crisis?
When things are spiraling out of control, that tests how committed we are to kindness. Do you still treat people respectfully and with dignity even when it's a crisis?
4. Are you able to maintain respectful dialogue with someone who strongly disagrees with you?
Disagreement doesn't have to result in disrespect. We should be able to share different perspectives without feeling diminished or making others feel diminished.
Disagreement doesn't have to result in disrespect. We should be able to share different perspectives without feeling diminished or making others feel diminished.
5. When you make a mistake or act poorly, do you take full ownership? Do you apologize immediately and sincerely?
Kindness doesn't make excuses. If you make a mistake, admit it and do what you can to make it right.
Kindness doesn't make excuses. If you make a mistake, admit it and do what you can to make it right.
6. Do you have positive beliefs about others? Do you look for the best in them? Do you believe the best about their intentions?
A person who is kind believes the best about others. It's being the type of person who can see the strengths in others, even when they're hard to see.
A person who is kind believes the best about others. It's being the type of person who can see the strengths in others, even when they're hard to see.
7. Are you able to forgive others for their mistakes? Are you able to forgive even if they don't apologize or admit their mistake?
Holding a grudge is definitely not a kindness quality. But sometimes it's hard if the other person doesn't apologize. But true kindness is tested by the hard stuff.
What are other ways you can think of to show kindness? Leave a comment or respond on Facebook or Twitter. It would be great to hear from you!
Holding a grudge is definitely not a kindness quality. But sometimes it's hard if the other person doesn't apologize. But true kindness is tested by the hard stuff.
What are other ways you can think of to show kindness? Leave a comment or respond on Facebook or Twitter. It would be great to hear from you!
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